A lot of times what we say and what we mean are at least similar. In the case of the ever changing world of relationships between men and women that "he said, she said" often comes down to " she said, but meant this". Fellows we have some advice on what she really means in spite of the word you hear coming from her sweet lips. It's not just the ladies that speak in words that have different meanings, we guys do it to.  Want to know some other secrets of communicating with the opposite sex? Learn to read body language, you can tell a lot more about a persons real feelings with what they don't say. That is why e-mail and texting can get you into so much trouble.