As babies we are born with the desire for it and as we grow it never leaves us. The need to be needed, or as the experts would call it the craving for affection. Men and women need affection to feel good about themselves. Far to often we men are accused of wanting only one kind of affection. Far to often those accusations are correct. There are ways to say I Love you, I want you, I need you,I respect you and I appreciate you with out dimming the lights and firing up the candles.